The Ever So Short Story of Nick Beef and Hash Brown.

Come this November, the stories begin all over again about Lee Harvey Oswald and the President John Kennedy's Assassination. But, also, there is a more human side. 

 

Mr. Oswald is buried in Rose Hill Cemetery, Lot # 258 in the Fairlawn Section in Ft. Worth. Along side him is a tombstone that reads Nick Beef. His real name is Patric Abedin and was 56 years old in 2013 (the last interview that I heard him tell this short story). 

Nick said that he purchased the grave site at the age of 18 for $175.00; the marker for another $987.19.

He continued to say that he was a writer and his nickname came about on a trip with a friend from Lubbock to Dallas. They had stopped at a bar and grill. Having been trying to make each other laugh on the trip, Patric said while waiting for their order, his friend had taken the name Hashbrown. Patric decided that he would take the name Nick Beef. It was a joke but later turned into the tombstone name since the cemetery would not allow a blank stone to be placed on a grave. 

In 2003, I drove out to Rose Hill Cemetery and set in search of the Oswald grave. In a retrospect way, my old friend that was a photographer and reporter for AP (Associated Press) and had taught me how to find things like that where high volume visitors had been. I found the grave with little problem and walked up to the grave. I must admit that it was an errie feeling standing there, having seen Lee Harvey murdered on national TV by Jack Ruby. I was 1200 miles north, still a senior in High School.There was just something that seemed to be around. A presence felt but not explained. 

Since, I have visited the grave of Bonnie Parker, of the Bonnie and Clyde fame. I know where Clyde Barrow is buried but access to the cemetery is restricted. Other famous names that are buried in Dallas that have also been visited are those of  baseball great, Mickey Mantle, Ross Perot and British-American actress Greer Garson, who knew my mother. Her grave and that of her husband Buddy, are buried together in a private corner spacious lot as they stood in marriage, surrounded by high hedges. It is a very humble setting for such an amazing woman.

 

Others that are yet to be visited are none other than Tom Landry and his bronze fedora marker and Mary Kay Ash, founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics. There is also a senator that was killed in a plane crash that is interred there. I have passed his grave with a Historical Marker outside the high hedge plot much like Greer and Buddy's lot.